Friday, March 12, 2010

A Special Day

Today is Billy's 31st birthday! Since I am constantly telling all about our kids, I don't often take time to brag about the great daddy and husband in our lives!
Billy is such a hard worker and does a great job making sure the needs of our family are being met. Lately, he's had to work 10 hour days, even on Saturdays! In addition to that he still has Sheet Metal School on Wednesday nights. So we've been joking that we're Daddy deprived these days. We appreciate how hard he's working for us, but we sure do miss him a lot!
We're going to do our best to make this a special day for him, starting with this post!
We've made the following lists of how Billy is a great husband and daddy to each of us...and has been since day 1! (I just thought it would be a fun trip down memory lane to post a picture of Billy with each child as a baby.)

1. He's always thinking of me. He sends me a text every single day telling me that he loves me and hopes I have a great day. And if there's something he feels I want or need, he will go out and get it for me (usually without me even asking.)
2. He's a great "gopher." He never complains when I ask him to get and bring things to me that I need around the house.
3. He isn't jealous of the relationship I have with my mom. I'm such a Momma's girl. I talk to my mom almost daily and have to spend time with her on a regular basis. Billy is very understanding of this.
4. He never complains about my cooking. I'm a pretty decent cook, but we all have the urge to try a new recipie now and then. If one of these trial dinners isn't his favorite, he'll eat it anyway. (He won't go back for seconds though. haha)
5. He loves me unconditionally. Even three kids and a whole different body shape later, he doesn't love me any differently from the day we met.

1. He plays Air Hogs with me. Tyler got an Air Hog remote control helicopter from Grandma and Grandpa Hadley for his birthday. Billy liked it so much that he bought his own. Billy's just happened to be green (Tyler's favorite), so they share and have a great time together.
2. He finds us after work. Long ago, Tyler started a game of hiding from Billy when he came home from work each day. Him and Allison still hide from him everyday and Billy just has to listen for the giggles to locate them. Once he finds them, there's lots of tickles, hugs, and kisses!
3. He teaches me lots of fun games. He has loved learning how to play Tic-Tac-Toe and Rock, Paper, Scissors. He also loves watching Billy play online chess and asks lots of questions so he can be a pro at chess too one day!
4. He shares mints with me at church. Daddy always has a pocket full of Life Saver mints at church. Tyler always looks forward to them on Sunday.
5. He calls me his "Big Man." And Tyler takes it personally if Daddy calls Ryan "Big Man." He will quickly correct him by reminding him that Ryan is "LITTLE Man."

1. He's my "friend" at night. Since sleeping in her big girl bed, Allison has some nights where she feels a little insecure. She will say that she needs a friend on these nights and sometimes Daddy will lay with her and scratch her back.
2. He shares his iPod with me. Billy has one of the iTouch iPods (not the iPhone). There are lots of fun apps for the kids that Billy has downloaded. Allison LOVES playing with Daddy's iPod and has even asked for her own "Princess iPod."
3. He's so warm and cozy. Allison loves sitting in her Daddy's lap. Ever since she was a baby, she has been most comfortable sitting with her Daddy. 95% of the time, she'll fall asleep while in his lap.
4. He shares his chocolate milk with me. Billy loves Mayfield chocolate milk. If he gets one when we're all shopping together, he gets a straw so he can easily share with the kids.
5. He calls me his "Pretty Girl." This makes her feel so special. She loves being Daddy's pretty girl.

1. He lets me watch T.V. with him. Billy uses this to distract Ryan when Mommy needs a little break.
2. He even downloads iPod apps for me! Billy downloaded Baby Einstein and some white noise apps for Ryan to use.
3. He turns on music and dances with me. Billy does this to get Ryan to sleep. It's worked several times!
4. He takes good care of me. Whether it's running to the store late at night for some Gripe Water or Tylenol or finding a way to calm me down, Daddy wants me to be happy!
5. He calls me Little Man or Ryan Baby.

We love you so much and hope this is a special day for you!

8 comments:

Tracey said...

That is awesome! I love this post. Great pictures. BTW... My brother in law is also in school for sheet metal on Wednesdays.

Anonymous said...

Is he in Local 85?

The Asay Family said...

Awesome post!
You guys have such a cute family dynamic. I love it.
Happy birthday, Billy!

Wendy said...
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Wendy said...

Okay, I was confused. Hence the deleted comment above. Anyway...
Tracey, that's my husband wanting to know if your brother-in-law is in local 85.

Braden said...

Happy Birthday, Billy! I hope you got/get everything you wished for. One of these years we'll go on that weekend Baja race... mark my words!

Anonymous said...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY BILLY!!! What a beautiful post and tribute to you for your birthday! I have to agree with every good thing my daughter and grandchildren had to say about you. What a wonderful son you are to me and Anthony. Thanks for taking such good care of our beautiful daughter and beautiful grandchildren. We all appreciate the long hours and hard work you give to your job, and all those warm cozy fires on those cold winter nights you provide for them. All that and more never goes unnoticed. You all are dearly special and close to our hearts. I too, appreciate your generous sharing and understanding of Wendy's and my relationship. Thank you so much. May God continue to bless you and your family as you grow in the gospel and serve Him. You are a very generous and thoughtful husband, father, son, grandson, brother, brother-in-law, uncle, nephew and friend. (Let's see, is that all? Did you ever stop to think how many people you are?) When is there a better time to take the opportunity to let someone know just how much they are loved and appreciated than on their special day? So there you have it--many thruths spoken from our hearts. :) We LOVE you and appreciate you Billy, Anthony and Marilyn (P.S. Getting that birthday dinner ready--let me know whether you want to come Saturday or Sunday)

Wendy said...

He DOES work so hard on the wood and fire. I can't believe one of us didn't think to mention it! Thanks so much for making sure we're warm too Sweetie! :)